A well-known adage says that “home is where the heart is”. This should necessarily lead us to question, where is the heart? And is the heart always at home?
Such basic question can be sliced and diced to gain a lot of depth into this analysis. We can thus start by trying to define what is “where”. Is it a physical place, or is it a state of mind? And regarding the “heart” portion, does it refer to our mind, or our soul?
In order to define these items, we must analyze what “home” encompasses. By definition, it should a place where we feel comfortable and content. A familiar environment that provides safety and a feeling of attachment that other places do not offer. But then we must also realize that not every familiar place, nor any safe environment, nor any place that we feel any attachment to necessarily makes us feel at home by those basic qualities alone.
A home is therefore not easily defined, yet we simply feel at home when we find that special spot of well being. This could partly be because home could be more than the location where we are: It may as well be the physical place that provides us peace of mind, where our soul and our entire being find serenity and feel in familiar surroundings that provide tranquility, safety, and nurturing.
Home is therefore a combination of factors. Physical surroundings are important, as they are enablers of our well being. But it is equally important that our minds are prepared to make themselves at home and be at ease wherever they may be. In other words, “home” is an entity that lives within us, and wakes up whenever the appropriate external conditions are met. Only when all those factors are combined and interact in harmony is that we can feel ourselves at home, wherever we choose it to be.
Our modern lives sometimes demand that we move constantly from one dwelling to another, from one city to another, from one country to another. Thus we should not think of home as a static place anymore. Home comes with us, and the surroundings that enable us to develop our fullest have the potential of becoming our home if the appropriate conditions are met. Home is both a state of mind and a physical place, none of which can become home on their very own.
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